Networking……..the dreaded requirement for finding a job

So you just read the latest article about networking by Mr. or Ms. “I know everything about networking” and it states “if you aren’t getting out to network every day  you aren’t doing everything possible to get a job”.  Ugh – are they crazy?!!!   If you’re an introvert, the thought of going out to network daily is not just overwhelming but impossible.   So put those crazy thoughts aside - it is possible to network in a way that works for YOU!

There are two types of networking, the kind you attend in person and the kind you do right from your own computer – known as social networking.  There are many avenues for social networking, the most common being LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and some consider blogging another form as well.  You’re probably already using at least one type of social networking – why not learn to use it to its fullest capability.   Join groups, read articles, reach out to people and you’ll quickly see the benefits – and power – of social networking.

When it comes to live networking the truth is I’m only able to handle one, but no more than two networking events a week and  I want to make those events count!   So I carefully choose the events I’m going to attend.  I used to go to networking events for those of us “in transition” (the new polite term for unemployed) but now I only attend those events occasionally. Why?  They are great for meeting new people (I’ve made some terrific friends from these events) but since everyone is in the same situation I haven’t found them to be particularly helpful for job hunting.

So what types of events do I attend?  Those that really peak my interest, that draw a diverse crowd from many industries and includes the employed!  Why?  If the only people I’m hanging with are unemployed I’m not meeting people who have job opportunities in the company they work at right now!  I attend events of all sizes, small events are great for really getting to know each other and bigger events expose you to a lot more people.  Look for events online in your city, your industry, sponsored by local clubs (like social media) or hosted by a local hotel, restaurant or coffee house.

In our community many people who are connecting via their social network are looking to meet offline as well.  I recently attended an event that started online but is now meeting live.  Many of the networking events I attend also have corresponding social networking groups on LinkedIn and Facebook to build on connections between get-togethers.

With a little searching you’ll be able to find lots of networking opportunities, both online and live and  I’ve rounded up  some great articles to help you find your networking groove:

3 Ways To Make Networking Fun for Introverts and Extroverts

Networking For The Shy and Introverted

Introvert or Extrovert? Tips For The Search No Matter Which ‘Vert’ You Are

How To Take The Intimidation Out Of Networking

Networking?  Ugh!

Networking for the Networking Phobic

Ok everyone there are many networking activities to choose from!  I’d like to hear from all of you what type of networking you’re using and how it’s working for you.

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